March 4, 2016

 

 

The Not So Pretty Reality About Today's Relationship Landscape.

 

I listened in amazement how this very successful power-woman lamented about how she was having such a hard time attracting and keeping a man. 

 

She confessed that her Type A personality would often undermine her suitor's good intentions with a "better" idea of her own. She's a very attractive woman and dresses in the 9's. Yet she is a great example of a woman that is fully in her masculine energy. So much so that men do not know how to show up for her.

 

Most of the men think that she's quite a prize and would love to be in a relationship with a woman of her calibre.

 

But here's where it all falls apart. Too many men "front load" their masculine strength and charisma with her. In other words they put on a mask or false front of...

February 28, 2016

 

Overheard In The Coffee Shop Today:

 

Late 30's couple leaving the coffee shop. Just before they get to the door a well dressed man walks in holding the door open for both of them.

 

She smiles broadly and says loudly, "Thank you so much! It's great to know there are a few gentlemen still left in this world!" 

 

As they leave I can feel the tension instantly build between them. As The door closed I could hear his muffled response,

 

"What the hell was that all about?" 

 

I could not hear the rest of the conversation but they argued on the street in front of the car for at least 5 minutes before they got in. No, he did not open her door.

 

With the work I do as "TheCoachForMen I always find myself observing men, women and couples as they interact.

 

Viewing these two...I immediately thought about emascu...

November 26, 2015

 

Oh You Say You Want To Change…But Do You Really?

 

What are you doing on a consistent basis to develop the Remarkable Man you want to be and to make it a priority?

 

Regardless if it's in your relationship with your spouse, children, business partners or colleagues. Perhaps it's lifestyle, success and getting to the top. What ever it is, If you keep waiting for others to change in order for you to get your life rock'n, you may be waiting a very long time.

 

Long enough for resentment, stagnation and frustration to build up. Yeah that's the spot! Right there! Ouch! We've all been there!

 

The truth is, you have to suck it up and "BE" the change you want to experience in your life.

The Remarkable Man mindset is about being the highest best version of yourself and taking full responsibility for where...

June 25, 2015

It does not matter how old you are or how much experience you might have. The reality is, if you are a man, you know things might be a little "off" when it comes to feeling like a man. Maybe you once had it, maybe you never really owned it, but at some level you know something is not quite right.

 

In today's world there are very few examples of men truly being manly! Relax, I am not talking about some masogenistic douche baggery here. I'm talking about that feeling you have when you truly feel alive, verile, and confident. It's in those moments when you have that certain swagger that both men and women notice and are attracted to.

 

Those moments are becoming fewer and far between for the average man. The truth is, most men have lost their fire. 

 

Oh that fire! It's that flame that burns withi...

June 7, 2015

A decade or two ago this would not even be a topic on the radar. However, something is amiss in the world and you can feel it. 

 

I see it in how men hold themselves as they walk. I can see it when a man attempts to engage and talk to an empowered woman. I notice the stagering and sad relationship statistics.

 

Men are getting their mojo sucked right out from within them and they don't know it's happening until it's too late. She leaves him, his career nose-dives or he can't understand the malaise he finds himself in.

 

My coaching practice has ballooned with men that are finding they aren't the men they once were. There was a time that they had game. There was a time they had strength, courage and swagger. Yet within just a few years they find themselves to be a shadow of the man he use to be....

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