April 6, 2017

I just had a great chat with a woman about how her 28 year old son is getting a divorce because he was...wait for it...too nice!
 

That's right! Too nice!


That sounds on the surface like he married a self serving and entitled bitch.

 
But in truth this is happening in relationships everywhere.
"Nice guys" don't cut it in relationship dynamics.


Hang on...of course you are nice and have a good soul, but when it becomes all of who you are...it dos not work the way you think.

Too nice maybe a sign that you have become weak, indecisive and needy.


You take on more feminine energy than the relationship can sustain.


You need validation and seek it through being nice. It does not come from a place of power.


Guys that are in this headspace get wired that being nice and a people pleaser will make the r...

January 27, 2017

There's a shift occurring.

You can feel it.

You feel it in your relationship. You feel it in your business and you feel it when you are alone.

Something big is happening in the unseen and it's causing a lot of challenges, confusion and frustration...particularly among men. 

Change is upon us and it's impacting the way a man sees himself and how he shows up in the world. This change is happening like never before.

Today I was sitting in a coffee shop having a meeting with a young man that truly understood the challenges men of his generation are going through. 

He impressed me with his level of awareness and understanding of what's happening to men. In particular, what was happening to his close friends and clients.

He expressed how they seemed to be sadly unaware and uni...

October 24, 2016

"Yes Dear."

"No, you pick the movie Sweetie." 

"What ever restaurant you want Hon I'm fine with that."
"No, I'll stay home and be with you...the guys can go on without me."

If this sounds like you in your relationship or in your dating world you might as well be saying,

"Hey, please Baby..I need your approval and attention. I'll do anything to please YOU… if you’ll just give me your time, attention and approval."

Yuck!! I think I threw up in my mouth a little. I'm sure there's a few ladies feeling like that too!

There's a growing trend occurring and I'm seeing it more and more in my coaching practice, from my peers and from the feedback I get from my followers and fans. Too many men are playing small!

Playing small can show up in a number of ways. He can appear to be a wuss, a wimp, weak and need...

June 27, 2016

As a man, you have experienced them most of your adult life. You have most likely passed a few, but sadly you have probably failed more times than you'll ever admit to your crew.

It's the stuff of lore layered thick on the hallowed halls of yacht clubs to the sports bars and pubs around the world.

They spawn countless empty glasses, knowing nods of "I hear you Bro." and comforting pats on the back as men have lamented for eons about how confounded, confused and frustrated they are by them.

We're talking about the stealthy, clever and seemingly diabolical...Yes the dreaded "Shit Test".

You know...the tests women give to men to see if he's worthy of her affections, sex and sanity in the relationship or courting process.

Yes, the "Shit test". It's a real name for a...

November 26, 2015

 

Oh You Say You Want To Change…But Do You Really?

 

What are you doing on a consistent basis to develop the Remarkable Man you want to be and to make it a priority?

 

Regardless if it's in your relationship with your spouse, children, business partners or colleagues. Perhaps it's lifestyle, success and getting to the top. What ever it is, If you keep waiting for others to change in order for you to get your life rock'n, you may be waiting a very long time.

 

Long enough for resentment, stagnation and frustration to build up. Yeah that's the spot! Right there! Ouch! We've all been there!

 

The truth is, you have to suck it up and "BE" the change you want to experience in your life.

The Remarkable Man mindset is about being the highest best version of yourself and taking full responsibility for where...

August 31, 2015

It's a Wednesday night and you're fresh from a coffee date that you feel went pretty good. She laughed at your weak impression of Elvis, she shared her back-story without boring you and what was to be an hour meeting became two.

 

When it was time to say goodbye out on the street you warmly hugged and agreed you'd both like to see each other again.

 

So now you sit on the couch with the phone in your hand staring at her number you have on speed dial.

 

There's a pang of anxiety that hits as you press "Dial"...It rings...and rings...Damn! It's voice mail. You hear her pleasant voice on the recorded message and it takes you back to seeing her across the table. You smile. Then you hear the tone as your mind scrambles for something clever and witty to say.

 

"Uh hi Tammy...It's Craig...from last Sunda...

April 30, 2015

In this video I talk about how important it is to love yourself first before you seek love from someone else. We have all been in a situation where we believe that the love of another will make everything right in our world. 

 

The truth is, we can not give someone anything unless it is a part of who we are. If you can not love yourself, how can you expect to love another?

 

Check out the video.

 

Have the Best Day!

 

Your coach Dwayne

 

https://youtube/LYwfLobVCcg

 

 

 

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