July 13, 2018

Alisa was busy collecting the papers and half empty water bottles around the big boardroom table as the last few of the team sauntered out the double glass doors. The Chicago skyline filled the big windows and the room was glowing as the sun began its morning trek across the sky. 

The room was still electric with the excited energy the third quarter numbers represented. The board and shareholders are very pleased.

One of the glazed doors swung open and Terry, the company's CFO in his classic tweed jacket and bow tie popped his head in. 

"Bruce! Bruce!"

Alison then realized that her boss and company president was still in the room. He was leaning up against one of the large floor to ceiling windows gazing down at the streets below. It was Terry's second calling of his name that Bruce snapped ou...

April 6, 2017

I just had a great chat with a woman about how her 28 year old son is getting a divorce because he was...wait for it...too nice!
 

That's right! Too nice!


That sounds on the surface like he married a self serving and entitled bitch.

 
But in truth this is happening in relationships everywhere.
"Nice guys" don't cut it in relationship dynamics.


Hang on...of course you are nice and have a good soul, but when it becomes all of who you are...it dos not work the way you think.

Too nice maybe a sign that you have become weak, indecisive and needy.


You take on more feminine energy than the relationship can sustain.


You need validation and seek it through being nice. It does not come from a place of power.


Guys that are in this headspace get wired that being nice and a people pleaser will make the r...

January 27, 2017

There's a shift occurring.

You can feel it.

You feel it in your relationship. You feel it in your business and you feel it when you are alone.

Something big is happening in the unseen and it's causing a lot of challenges, confusion and frustration...particularly among men. 

Change is upon us and it's impacting the way a man sees himself and how he shows up in the world. This change is happening like never before.

Today I was sitting in a coffee shop having a meeting with a young man that truly understood the challenges men of his generation are going through. 

He impressed me with his level of awareness and understanding of what's happening to men. In particular, what was happening to his close friends and clients.

He expressed how they seemed to be sadly unaware and uni...

January 24, 2017

In this Mojo Minute Video Blog I answer a question many guys are dealing with.

It is a very common challenge. A lot of guys do this. They think that by putting 100% into the relationship and letting go of the things that he enjoys that she somehow thinks this is noble and right.

You'd be wrong. Sure she loves the attention and the commitment you are making to the relationship but she's not wanting you to sacrifice your manliness that attracted you to her in the first place!

She wants to go out with her friends and for a lot of women this is a "Non Negotiable" item. It's important to her! 

Yet this brings up all kinds insecurities within him. He does not have enough inner strength and created enough trust with his authentic masculine power that he becomes jealous every time she goes out.

I'...

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