June 27, 2016

As a man, you have experienced them most of your adult life. You have most likely passed a few, but sadly you have probably failed more times than you'll ever admit to your crew.

It's the stuff of lore layered thick on the hallowed halls of yacht clubs to the sports bars and pubs around the world.

They spawn countless empty glasses, knowing nods of "I hear you Bro." and comforting pats on the back as men have lamented for eons about how confounded, confused and frustrated they are by them.

We're talking about the stealthy, clever and seemingly diabolical...Yes the dreaded "Shit Test".

You know...the tests women give to men to see if he's worthy of her affections, sex and sanity in the relationship or courting process.

Yes, the "Shit test". It's a real name for a...

June 7, 2015

A decade or two ago this would not even be a topic on the radar. However, something is amiss in the world and you can feel it. 


I see it in how men hold themselves as they walk. I can see it when a man attempts to engage and talk to an empowered woman. I notice the stagering and sad relationship statistics.


Men are getting their mojo sucked right out from within them and they don't know it's happening until it's too late. She leaves him, his career nose-dives or he can't understand the malaise he finds himself in.


My coaching practice has ballooned with men that are finding they aren't the men they once were. There was a time that they had game. There was a time they had strength, courage and swagger. Yet within just a few years they find themselves to be a shadow of the man he use to be....

May 18, 2015

 It's happened more that once. It will happen again and if it hasn't happened to you...it will!


Yeah...there's not a situation in life that brings more fear, shame and self emasculating feelings in man than that of Male Sexual Disfunction. 


In today's relationship landscape more and more men are dealing with sexual disfunction than ever before. The male mojo is being decimated at epidemic levels!


In 2010 The worldwide incidence of erectile dysfunction was estimated at over 152 million men, with a forecast of 322 million men by the year 2025. A European study in Vienna of 2,869 men between the ages of 20 and 80 found 32% of their sample have some level of erectile dysfunction.


A Canadian study of 3,921 men between the ages of 40 and 88 found that 49.4% of men sampled hav...

May 9, 2015


Between all the well meaning breakfast-in-bed disasters and dinners at the family restaurant. There's something she craves more than anything...

Her man to be a real man...Her champion!


It's true! Sure she loves the gifts and thoughtful projects from the kids, but at the end of the day, she really wants YOU to acknowledge her for all she has done for the kids, the family and the relationship.


Mother's Day is the day that all her efforts get the "official" appreciation they so deserve.


There's no doubt that there are some very creative, thoughtful and carring children that know exactly how to make Mom's day truly special. However, for the most part, the day's success is going to fall on your lap.


As Dad or partner in this dynamic you'll most likley play a role in being the supervisor, the a...

April 30, 2015



For a lot of guys, being in a group, community or having a coach is way outside their comfort zone.


We've got this lone-wolf thing down pretty good.


Sure, we get together with our buds and shoot the shit, have some laughs, maybe watch a game at the pub and check out the talent that just walked in. But aside from that our lives are pretty insular for the most part.


However, most guys would tell you that they want something more. What that is may surprise you. Men want to have real converstations with the men in thier lives.

In other words, men want to get real!


It's true! They want to talk and share about what is truly going on with them!




Guys want to share and express what's going on with them!?


Just what kinda guys are we talking about here?



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