October 23, 2017

There comes a time in every relationship where the communication turns nasty. 

The bickering and the nagging starts and it seems like there's no getting around it.

Whether it is your current relationship or in your past relationship, you know that there is a time when the honeymoon phase ends and the realness of who you both really are comes to the surface.

If you are at that stage now, I'm here to tell you that bickering and nagging is a symptom of a much bigger issue.

Bickering and nagging is a cry for help because everything else is not working.

Couples will tend to use absolutes like, "Always" and  "Never" in their arguments. 

It's not that it is a truth, but in their mind it is a truth.

You can have a lot of great experiences that prove you are an amazing guy, but it's that one screw up...

April 6, 2017

I just had a great chat with a woman about how her 28 year old son is getting a divorce because he was...wait for it...too nice!
 

That's right! Too nice!


That sounds on the surface like he married a self serving and entitled bitch.

 
But in truth this is happening in relationships everywhere.
"Nice guys" don't cut it in relationship dynamics.


Hang on...of course you are nice and have a good soul, but when it becomes all of who you are...it dos not work the way you think.

Too nice maybe a sign that you have become weak, indecisive and needy.


You take on more feminine energy than the relationship can sustain.


You need validation and seek it through being nice. It does not come from a place of power.


Guys that are in this headspace get wired that being nice and a people pleaser will make the r...

January 9, 2017

So many men are feeling like they have lost the respect and admirations of their spouses and partners in their relationship.

Sure, they love the woman in their lives but they feel like they are not able to feel like her champion and truly enjoy the passion and connection of the relationship.

This is such a common relationship challenge that I thought I'd better do a video to address this all too pervasive issue.

Click the video to learn some key aspect of masculine and feminine energy.

As well, you'll learn that it's not her fault that you are feeling the way you do!

I share some powerful steps you can take to rekindle your authentic masculine power and be the Remarkable Man you want to be.

If you enjoyed this post, please like, share and comment on it. I'd love to hear from you.

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July 26, 2016

So you have it pretty good. You've got a great career or business and things seem to be chugging along nicely.

On the surface you have great friends, even a great relationship and family. You're so lucky!

However, for some strange reason, you feel like it's all about to go south on you at any moment.

You have this sensation of impending doom and don't know how to stop it from happening.

Well of course. I mean If you look at your track record you'll even see a ton of evidence to support your neurosis.

In business, you've got quite story: That last job or business you were in tanked due to someone pulling the rug out from under you. The culture sucked! The economy went sideways. You manifested some shading partners and they took all yours and your investor's money. You were so burned!

Damn that's...

June 27, 2016

As a man, you have experienced them most of your adult life. You have most likely passed a few, but sadly you have probably failed more times than you'll ever admit to your crew.

It's the stuff of lore layered thick on the hallowed halls of yacht clubs to the sports bars and pubs around the world.

They spawn countless empty glasses, knowing nods of "I hear you Bro." and comforting pats on the back as men have lamented for eons about how confounded, confused and frustrated they are by them.

We're talking about the stealthy, clever and seemingly diabolical...Yes the dreaded "Shit Test".

You know...the tests women give to men to see if he's worthy of her affections, sex and sanity in the relationship or courting process.

Yes, the "Shit test". It's a real name for a...

August 31, 2015

It's a Wednesday night and you're fresh from a coffee date that you feel went pretty good. She laughed at your weak impression of Elvis, she shared her back-story without boring you and what was to be an hour meeting became two.

 

When it was time to say goodbye out on the street you warmly hugged and agreed you'd both like to see each other again.

 

So now you sit on the couch with the phone in your hand staring at her number you have on speed dial.

 

There's a pang of anxiety that hits as you press "Dial"...It rings...and rings...Damn! It's voice mail. You hear her pleasant voice on the recorded message and it takes you back to seeing her across the table. You smile. Then you hear the tone as your mind scrambles for something clever and witty to say.

 

"Uh hi Tammy...It's Craig...from last Sunda...

July 9, 2015

We are half way through The Biggest Outdoor Show On Earth. Also known as the Calgary Stampede. For those of you that have never heard of it or have never experienced it...it is truly something to behold. 

 

When I was a newbie to the Stampede many years ago, I thought it would be just like any other annual civic event. You know...an area of the city that has a dedicated fairground and event area where the festival takes place. Boy was I wrong!

 

Calgary...and I mean the whole city of over a million...turns into a ten-day party of celebration, excess and hedonism all wrapped up in a country and western theme.

 

Sure there's the world's largest rodeo and the city does a great job in promoting it as a family friendly event, but if you've been here you soon realise that the real event(s) are wh...

June 7, 2015

A decade or two ago this would not even be a topic on the radar. However, something is amiss in the world and you can feel it. 

 

I see it in how men hold themselves as they walk. I can see it when a man attempts to engage and talk to an empowered woman. I notice the stagering and sad relationship statistics.

 

Men are getting their mojo sucked right out from within them and they don't know it's happening until it's too late. She leaves him, his career nose-dives or he can't understand the malaise he finds himself in.

 

My coaching practice has ballooned with men that are finding they aren't the men they once were. There was a time that they had game. There was a time they had strength, courage and swagger. Yet within just a few years they find themselves to be a shadow of the man he use to be....

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