July 11, 2018

 I had the pleasure of speaking at a women's group a couple weeks ago. The women that attended would be considered to be successful, empowered and awake.

I also thought there might be a bit of a feminist stance as well.

Not so.

The women were really open and receptive to my talk.

In fact, I had a few in tears.

I give both women and men the truth about what's happening in the live's of men behind the masks.

In a lot of ways I help women to see her man with new eyes for the first time.

What came up in conversation afterward was not surprising.

Most of the women are at their wits end about how to get their husband/boyfriend/life-mate to own his emotions. To step up and do some real work on himself and the relationship.

Most men want to learn, grow and understand their behaviours that F'up hi...

June 27, 2016

As a man, you have experienced them most of your adult life. You have most likely passed a few, but sadly you have probably failed more times than you'll ever admit to your crew.

It's the stuff of lore layered thick on the hallowed halls of yacht clubs to the sports bars and pubs around the world.

They spawn countless empty glasses, knowing nods of "I hear you Bro." and comforting pats on the back as men have lamented for eons about how confounded, confused and frustrated they are by them.

We're talking about the stealthy, clever and seemingly diabolical...Yes the dreaded "Shit Test".

You know...the tests women give to men to see if he's worthy of her affections, sex and sanity in the relationship or courting process.

Yes, the "Shit test". It's a real name for a...

February 28, 2016

 

Overheard In The Coffee Shop Today:

 

Late 30's couple leaving the coffee shop. Just before they get to the door a well dressed man walks in holding the door open for both of them.

 

She smiles broadly and says loudly, "Thank you so much! It's great to know there are a few gentlemen still left in this world!" 

 

As they leave I can feel the tension instantly build between them. As The door closed I could hear his muffled response,

 

"What the hell was that all about?" 

 

I could not hear the rest of the conversation but they argued on the street in front of the car for at least 5 minutes before they got in. No, he did not open her door.

 

With the work I do as "TheCoachForMen I always find myself observing men, women and couples as they interact.

 

Viewing these two...I immediately thought about emascu...

June 25, 2015

It does not matter how old you are or how much experience you might have. The reality is, if you are a man, you know things might be a little "off" when it comes to feeling like a man. Maybe you once had it, maybe you never really owned it, but at some level you know something is not quite right.

 

In today's world there are very few examples of men truly being manly! Relax, I am not talking about some masogenistic douche baggery here. I'm talking about that feeling you have when you truly feel alive, verile, and confident. It's in those moments when you have that certain swagger that both men and women notice and are attracted to.

 

Those moments are becoming fewer and far between for the average man. The truth is, most men have lost their fire. 

 

Oh that fire! It's that flame that burns withi...

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