I presented at The Remarkable Man Project last week about Charisma, Charm and Swagger. However, as much as it sounds like it's about dating and romance it was a much deeper dive into the inner game of "Being A Man". See the video below.
The first step to bringing more charisma and swagger into your life is to Let go of the stories you hang on to. What I mean is, you have a story, if not a few that keeps you playing small, limiting your growth, or preventing you from living the life you long to have.
As well, "Be A Man" has itself congured up a number of diverse perspectives. Many of them derogitory. What happened? We need to change the story.
We need to bring honour, integrity, charisma and inner strength into what it means to be a man.
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A decade or two ago this would not even be a topic on the radar. However, something is amiss in the world and you can feel it.
I see it in how men hold themselves as they walk. I can see it when a man attempts to engage and talk to an empowered woman. I notice the stagering and sad relationship statistics.
Men are getting their mojo sucked right out from within them and they don't know it's happening until it's too late. She leaves him, his career nose-dives or he can't understand the malaise he finds himself in.
My coaching practice has ballooned with men that are finding they aren't the men they once were. There was a time that they had game. There was a time they had strength, courage and swagger. Yet within just a few years they find themselves to be a shadow of the man he use to be....
In this video I talk about how important it is to love yourself first before you seek love from someone else. We have all been in a situation where we believe that the love of another will make everything right in our world.
The truth is, we can not give someone anything unless it is a part of who we are. If you can not love yourself, how can you expect to love another?