June 5, 2016

 So, You are in a relationship or you're a few dates in to something good.

 

Everything's going great!

 

The sex is great, you spoil her with fun events, your wit and charm. You seem to have a lot going on and all seems great!

 

Or is it?

 

Let me share an example for you. 

 

From most perspectives this couple I know is the epitome of the perfect power couple. They are both ridiculously good looking and have everything anyone could ever want in life.

 

Yes, they have the dream house, the beach house, the cars and three awesome kids too!

 

This is the kind of relationship most people brag about or aspire to.

 

Individually, he's on fire and has been a successful business owner for a number of years. His family is well respected and he's known as a no-nonsense, get-it-done kin...

February 28, 2016

 

Overheard In The Coffee Shop Today:

 

Late 30's couple leaving the coffee shop. Just before they get to the door a well dressed man walks in holding the door open for both of them.

 

She smiles broadly and says loudly, "Thank you so much! It's great to know there are a few gentlemen still left in this world!" 

 

As they leave I can feel the tension instantly build between them. As The door closed I could hear his muffled response,

 

"What the hell was that all about?" 

 

I could not hear the rest of the conversation but they argued on the street in front of the car for at least 5 minutes before they got in. No, he did not open her door.

 

With the work I do as "TheCoachForMen I always find myself observing men, women and couples as they interact.

 

Viewing these two...I immediately thought about emascu...

January 21, 2016

 

Boy about 7 years old to Mom's boyfriend. 


"No! You're not the boss of me!! You're not my dad!"


Boyfriend to boy, "Ah you want to play that game do you?"


"You know...you are absolutely right! I am not your dad! But if you want to get a cookie, a ride home and your dinner tonight, you better learn fast who's boss right now!"


Boy sulks, "I want my Mommy!"


Boyfriend, sighs deeply and reframes his approach.


"Well, she's not here right now...it's just you and me getting coffee and treats for her."
"You can chose to be a spoiled little brat or a cool dude and hold the bag of cookies for me." 

 

Well? "What do you want to be? A spoiled little brat? Or a cool dude?"

 

Boy sheepishly says..."A cool dude."


What was that I didn't hear you?

 
Boy, "A Cool Dude!!!"


Boyfriend, "No that's not good enough...Y...

August 2, 2015

 I presented at The Remarkable Man Project last week about Charisma, Charm and Swagger. However, as much as it sounds like it's about dating and romance it was a much deeper dive into the inner game of "Being A Man". See the video below.

 

The first step to bringing more charisma and swagger into your life is to Let go of the stories you hang on to. What I mean is, you have a story, if not a few that keeps you playing small, limiting your growth, or preventing you from living the life you long to have.

 

As well, "Be A Man" has itself congured up a number of diverse perspectives. Many of them derogitory. What happened? We need to change the story.

 

We need to bring honour, integrity, charisma and inner strength into what it means to be a man.

 

Enjoy the video and please comment, "Like" and share...

June 7, 2015

A decade or two ago this would not even be a topic on the radar. However, something is amiss in the world and you can feel it. 

 

I see it in how men hold themselves as they walk. I can see it when a man attempts to engage and talk to an empowered woman. I notice the stagering and sad relationship statistics.

 

Men are getting their mojo sucked right out from within them and they don't know it's happening until it's too late. She leaves him, his career nose-dives or he can't understand the malaise he finds himself in.

 

My coaching practice has ballooned with men that are finding they aren't the men they once were. There was a time that they had game. There was a time they had strength, courage and swagger. Yet within just a few years they find themselves to be a shadow of the man he use to be....

April 30, 2015

In this video I talk about how important it is to love yourself first before you seek love from someone else. We have all been in a situation where we believe that the love of another will make everything right in our world. 

 

The truth is, we can not give someone anything unless it is a part of who we are. If you can not love yourself, how can you expect to love another?

 

Check out the video.

 

Have the Best Day!

 

Your coach Dwayne

 

https://youtube/LYwfLobVCcg

 

 

 

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