We had an interesting discussion at The Remarkable Man Project Calgary last night.
It was about the idea of finding balance in a man's life. Balance, for most people sounds like a fantastic place to be.
Most people have this sunshine and skittles idea of what a life in balance is all about.
In truth balance is not where you want to be. Have you ever seen a scale perfectly balanced? It does not move!
Balance has no movement, no growth, no challenges to improve.
At best, balance might be a temporary state to achieve, but you'll soon find boredom, complacency and stagnation.
Balance in your relationship soon becomes a score card. If I do this for her, therefore I should get this in return. Ah balance is maintained. As soon as the balance is tipped toward one partner's efforts, the truth...