July 11, 2018

 I had the pleasure of speaking at a women's group a couple weeks ago. The women that attended would be considered to be successful, empowered and awake.

I also thought there might be a bit of a feminist stance as well.

Not so.

The women were really open and receptive to my talk.

In fact, I had a few in tears.

I give both women and men the truth about what's happening in the live's of men behind the masks.

In a lot of ways I help women to see her man with new eyes for the first time.

What came up in conversation afterward was not surprising.

Most of the women are at their wits end about how to get their husband/boyfriend/life-mate to own his emotions. To step up and do some real work on himself and the relationship.

Most men want to learn, grow and understand their behaviours that F'up hi...

May 2, 2018

"Why can't it be that when she needed me,

Are memories so hard to recover?

I'm nobody's fool,

She's mean when she's cruel,

She's saving herself for another.

I'm waiting in line, I'm wasting my time.

Again and again I keep hoping there's love in her eyes.

What kind of love is this?

Kind that keeps me standing in line."

These are part of the lyrics from a classic song "What Kind Of Love Is this" from Streetheart one of my favourite Canadian bands as a kid.

Okay I am dating myself but have a listen and feel the lyrics and see if it resonates with you.

I know I played right into the drama and heartache that this song is about. I too have had what felt like one-sided relationships. Yuck!

However, fast forward to today, I am #TheCoachForMen and I see this love song scenario being played out time a...

November 27, 2017

Guys, you'll want to pay attention as you read this post.

It covers some very true and obvious challenges that both men and women are dealing with...Especially in today's infamous dating landscape.

Whether you are single, dating or in a long term relationship, never take your foot of the gas...here's why:

I had the opportunity to sit with a dear and platonic friend that I hold in high regard. She's a women's coach and dating expert. So she had much to share about her real-world observations.

We sat at the corner of the bar in a very popular and busy chain restaurant. It was the start of "Happy Hour" and the suits were pouring in to enjoy a drink with colleagues, for camaraderie and some came in for the feigned attention of the very attractive bar staff.

My friend and I had not met up socially i...

April 30, 2017

Sex and intimacy.  They are one of the top prime directives in a relationship. It is what makes us come alive, feel connected and powerfully bonded with our beloved. Sex and intimacy are a big part of a man's sense of masculinity and feeling like a man. Ask a women, how important sex chemistry is and she too will agree it is a right near the top of "must haves" in a relationship. With that you would think couples are nocking boots every night! Sadly, that is not the case at all. If you are frustrated, feeling rejected and not as intimate with your partner as you would like to be, there are some shocking statistics that prove you are not alone. I see this a lot in my coaching practice, in my audience and the groups I run - There's a huge lack of sex and intimacy in...

April 6, 2017

I just had a great chat with a woman about how her 28 year old son is getting a divorce because he was...wait for it...too nice!
 

That's right! Too nice!


That sounds on the surface like he married a self serving and entitled bitch.

 
But in truth this is happening in relationships everywhere.
"Nice guys" don't cut it in relationship dynamics.


Hang on...of course you are nice and have a good soul, but when it becomes all of who you are...it dos not work the way you think.

Too nice maybe a sign that you have become weak, indecisive and needy.


You take on more feminine energy than the relationship can sustain.


You need validation and seek it through being nice. It does not come from a place of power.


Guys that are in this headspace get wired that being nice and a people pleaser will make the r...

January 27, 2017

There's a shift occurring.

You can feel it.

You feel it in your relationship. You feel it in your business and you feel it when you are alone.

Something big is happening in the unseen and it's causing a lot of challenges, confusion and frustration...particularly among men. 

Change is upon us and it's impacting the way a man sees himself and how he shows up in the world. This change is happening like never before.

Today I was sitting in a coffee shop having a meeting with a young man that truly understood the challenges men of his generation are going through. 

He impressed me with his level of awareness and understanding of what's happening to men. In particular, what was happening to his close friends and clients.

He expressed how they seemed to be sadly unaware and uni...

January 9, 2017

So many men are feeling like they have lost the respect and admirations of their spouses and partners in their relationship.

Sure, they love the woman in their lives but they feel like they are not able to feel like her champion and truly enjoy the passion and connection of the relationship.

This is such a common relationship challenge that I thought I'd better do a video to address this all too pervasive issue.

Click the video to learn some key aspect of masculine and feminine energy.

As well, you'll learn that it's not her fault that you are feeling the way you do!

I share some powerful steps you can take to rekindle your authentic masculine power and be the Remarkable Man you want to be.

If you enjoyed this post, please like, share and comment on it. I'd love to hear from you.

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December 21, 2016

Are you in a situation where you just can't seem to do anything right in your relationship?

Does it feel like you are walking on egg shells?

Are you going weeks if not months without passion and great sex?

If you are in a relationship and this has been your story then you may be in more of a bind than you realize.

A lot of men are dealing with a lacklustre and unfulfilling relationship because of how HE is showing up or has shown up in the relationship.

I'm not throwing my brothers under the bus here, but you have to understand the role you played in making this situation the way it is.

The big sticking point is that you love her and do not want to leave. If you could only change and work on your stuff then things would get better...Right?

 Sadly, that's a great thought but does not have a lot of...

November 24, 2016

How often have you allowed your setbacks to paralyze you from moving forward?

How many times have you felt powerless from the crap life tends to throw at you?

I was tested over the last week with a very severe leg injury. I had damaged my ligaments, tendons and muscles in the inner hip and pelvis reason so badly that I was mobilized with a kind of pain that felt like being electrocuted with every breathe I took and every move I made!

I couldn't sleep for 5 days as no position would settle it down or give me comfort. 

I couldn't do any amount of work as focus and concentration was impossible. Getting out to meet clients just wasn't going to happen.

I got all up in my stuff about the "What ifs" as I waited to get the x-rays and treatment.

So this situation forced me to explore the areas of my...

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