April 30, 2017

Sex and intimacy.  They are one of the top prime directives in a relationship. It is what makes us come alive, feel connected and powerfully bonded with our beloved. Sex and intimacy are a big part of a man's sense of masculinity and feeling like a man. Ask a women, how important sex chemistry is and she too will agree it is a right near the top of "must haves" in a relationship. With that you would think couples are nocking boots every night! Sadly, that is not the case at all. If you are frustrated, feeling rejected and not as intimate with your partner as you would like to be, there are some shocking statistics that prove you are not alone. I see this a lot in my coaching practice, in my audience and the groups I run - There's a huge lack of sex and intimacy in...

April 6, 2017

I just had a great chat with a woman about how her 28 year old son is getting a divorce because he was...wait for it...too nice!
 

That's right! Too nice!


That sounds on the surface like he married a self serving and entitled bitch.

 
But in truth this is happening in relationships everywhere.
"Nice guys" don't cut it in relationship dynamics.


Hang on...of course you are nice and have a good soul, but when it becomes all of who you are...it dos not work the way you think.

Too nice maybe a sign that you have become weak, indecisive and needy.


You take on more feminine energy than the relationship can sustain.


You need validation and seek it through being nice. It does not come from a place of power.


Guys that are in this headspace get wired that being nice and a people pleaser will make the r...

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