January 21, 2016

 

Boy about 7 years old to Mom's boyfriend. 


"No! You're not the boss of me!! You're not my dad!"


Boyfriend to boy, "Ah you want to play that game do you?"


"You know...you are absolutely right! I am not your dad! But if you want to get a cookie, a ride home and your dinner tonight, you better learn fast who's boss right now!"


Boy sulks, "I want my Mommy!"


Boyfriend, sighs deeply and reframes his approach.


"Well, she's not here right now...it's just you and me getting coffee and treats for her."
"You can chose to be a spoiled little brat or a cool dude and hold the bag of cookies for me." 

 

Well? "What do you want to be? A spoiled little brat? Or a cool dude?"

 

Boy sheepishly says..."A cool dude."


What was that I didn't hear you?

 
Boy, "A Cool Dude!!!"


Boyfriend, "No that's not good enough...Y...

August 2, 2015

 I presented at The Remarkable Man Project last week about Charisma, Charm and Swagger. However, as much as it sounds like it's about dating and romance it was a much deeper dive into the inner game of "Being A Man". See the video below.

 

The first step to bringing more charisma and swagger into your life is to Let go of the stories you hang on to. What I mean is, you have a story, if not a few that keeps you playing small, limiting your growth, or preventing you from living the life you long to have.

 

As well, "Be A Man" has itself congured up a number of diverse perspectives. Many of them derogitory. What happened? We need to change the story.

 

We need to bring honour, integrity, charisma and inner strength into what it means to be a man.

 

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