August 14, 2018

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Ah the dreaded, feared and enigmatic Friend Zone. That vast expanse beyond the outer rim of the relationship universe. A place where many men have witnessed their self esteem, self respect and masculinity vanish into the void without a trace.

To men, The Friend Zone might as well be the title of the most horrifying science fiction movie...Ever! Horrifying because it's real life and most guys don't know they're in the Friend Zone until it is too late. Only when he tries to make his move to amp up the sexual tension does he realize that there is none to be had! It's gone! I mean "distant eagle cry and tumble weed" gone.

Don't think for a moment that The Friend Zone is the exclusive domain of the shy, insecure "nice guys" trying to date or start a relationship. Hell n...

July 11, 2018

 I had the pleasure of speaking at a women's group a couple weeks ago. The women that attended would be considered to be successful, empowered and awake.

I also thought there might be a bit of a feminist stance as well.

Not so.

The women were really open and receptive to my talk.

In fact, I had a few in tears.

I give both women and men the truth about what's happening in the live's of men behind the masks.

In a lot of ways I help women to see her man with new eyes for the first time.

What came up in conversation afterward was not surprising.

Most of the women are at their wits end about how to get their husband/boyfriend/life-mate to own his emotions. To step up and do some real work on himself and the relationship.

Most men want to learn, grow and understand their behaviours that F'up hi...

April 30, 2017

Sex and intimacy.  They are one of the top prime directives in a relationship. It is what makes us come alive, feel connected and powerfully bonded with our beloved. Sex and intimacy are a big part of a man's sense of masculinity and feeling like a man. Ask a women, how important sex chemistry is and she too will agree it is a right near the top of "must haves" in a relationship. With that you would think couples are nocking boots every night! Sadly, that is not the case at all. If you are frustrated, feeling rejected and not as intimate with your partner as you would like to be, there are some shocking statistics that prove you are not alone. I see this a lot in my coaching practice, in my audience and the groups I run - There's a huge lack of sex and intimacy in...

October 24, 2016

"Yes Dear."

"No, you pick the movie Sweetie." 

"What ever restaurant you want Hon I'm fine with that."
"No, I'll stay home and be with you...the guys can go on without me."

If this sounds like you in your relationship or in your dating world you might as well be saying,

"Hey, please Baby..I need your approval and attention. I'll do anything to please YOU… if you’ll just give me your time, attention and approval."

Yuck!! I think I threw up in my mouth a little. I'm sure there's a few ladies feeling like that too!

There's a growing trend occurring and I'm seeing it more and more in my coaching practice, from my peers and from the feedback I get from my followers and fans. Too many men are playing small!

Playing small can show up in a number of ways. He can appear to be a wuss, a wimp, weak and need...

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