August 14, 2018

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Ah the dreaded, feared and enigmatic Friend Zone. That vast expanse beyond the outer rim of the relationship universe. A place where many men have witnessed their self esteem, self respect and masculinity vanish into the void without a trace.

To men, The Friend Zone might as well be the title of the most horrifying science fiction movie...Ever! Horrifying because it's real life and most guys don't know they're in the Friend Zone until it is too late. Only when he tries to make his move to amp up the sexual tension does he realize that there is none to be had! It's gone! I mean "distant eagle cry and tumble weed" gone.

Don't think for a moment that The Friend Zone is the exclusive domain of the shy, insecure "nice guys" trying to date or start a relationship. Hell n...

July 11, 2018

 I had the pleasure of speaking at a women's group a couple weeks ago. The women that attended would be considered to be successful, empowered and awake.

I also thought there might be a bit of a feminist stance as well.

Not so.

The women were really open and receptive to my talk.

In fact, I had a few in tears.

I give both women and men the truth about what's happening in the live's of men behind the masks.

In a lot of ways I help women to see her man with new eyes for the first time.

What came up in conversation afterward was not surprising.

Most of the women are at their wits end about how to get their husband/boyfriend/life-mate to own his emotions. To step up and do some real work on himself and the relationship.

Most men want to learn, grow and understand their behaviours that F'up hi...

March 1, 2018

The Elephant In The Room. A Must Read For Men.

How often have you felt out of sorts, not yourself and just unable to truly connect with your woman?

Do you argue with her about shit that just keeps piling up? Does it feel like the "Make up" moments are just desperate truces for a bit of peace before the next round?

For most men in this situation I am going to blow your hair back (if you still have it) about a reality you might be blind to seeing but you feel its truth.

I too fell into behaviour patterns in relationships that were bull-headed, frustrating and childish. Never figuring out the answers she was looking for or being able to solve the seemingly dastardly riddle that women seem to be for so many men.

In truth, the reason you feel disconnected, unable to get away from the constant naggin...

September 12, 2017

In this Your Mojo Mojo Minute Video I go over 3 key Take-Aways that I have learned from Conor McGregor.

Love him or hate him, I have grown to respect the man.

He embodies the true spirit of what it takes to go after your dreams.

Nothing is going to get in his way.

As such he manifested The Fight Of The Century!

McGregor is a student of The Law Of Attraction. He knows how the law works and does everything he can to use it to his advantage.

The three take-aways I share will help you to play a bigger game!

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Have the best day!

Remember, you are not alone on the journey...I've got your back!

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July 31, 2017

It's  a beautiful afternoon as I sit awaiting my 2PM appointment.

My phone vibrates and I glance down:

SORRY RUNNING 15 MIN BEHIND

No big deal as I am enjoying watching the parade of exotic cars being valeted at this prestigious hotel.

The lounge is hopping with international travellers kicking back, or planning their next excursion and business meetings...Hey wait! Is that Rianna?

Hey, There's Mark Wahlberg! Wow! He's shorter than I thought.

Not surprising, many of Hollywood's royalty stay here when they visit or shoot movies.

I then feel a hand on my shoulder from behind,

"Dwayne! I'm sorry for keeping you waiting."

John (Not his real name) was breathless as he came around and sat in the over stuffed chair across from me.

John is a very accomplished business owner and is having the most imp...

April 6, 2017

I just had a great chat with a woman about how her 28 year old son is getting a divorce because he was...wait for it...too nice!
 

That's right! Too nice!


That sounds on the surface like he married a self serving and entitled bitch.

 
But in truth this is happening in relationships everywhere.
"Nice guys" don't cut it in relationship dynamics.


Hang on...of course you are nice and have a good soul, but when it becomes all of who you are...it dos not work the way you think.

Too nice maybe a sign that you have become weak, indecisive and needy.


You take on more feminine energy than the relationship can sustain.


You need validation and seek it through being nice. It does not come from a place of power.


Guys that are in this headspace get wired that being nice and a people pleaser will make the r...

October 24, 2016

"Yes Dear."

"No, you pick the movie Sweetie." 

"What ever restaurant you want Hon I'm fine with that."
"No, I'll stay home and be with you...the guys can go on without me."

If this sounds like you in your relationship or in your dating world you might as well be saying,

"Hey, please Baby..I need your approval and attention. I'll do anything to please YOU… if you’ll just give me your time, attention and approval."

Yuck!! I think I threw up in my mouth a little. I'm sure there's a few ladies feeling like that too!

There's a growing trend occurring and I'm seeing it more and more in my coaching practice, from my peers and from the feedback I get from my followers and fans. Too many men are playing small!

Playing small can show up in a number of ways. He can appear to be a wuss, a wimp, weak and need...

July 6, 2016

Have you ever wondered why your relationships have a pattern or familiarity to them?

Have you ever contemplated why you excel in curtain areas of your life, but completely suck in others?

Do you ever get frustrated as to why you show up in conflict or stressful situations the way you do?

Have you ever been pissed off by the way you sabotage the things that matter most to you? Yet can't figure out why?

These are indeed questions of the ages. 

So many men are often at a total loss as to why they behave the way they do. 

Yet, instead of truly seeking answers and getting to the root, most end up suffering in quiet desperation.

They get diagnosed and labeled with depression, anxiety and host of other multi-syllable disorders to get them hooked on a host of prescription drugs to numb and dumb them down...

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